I AM THE ONE

SHUT UP AND GET THE GIRL

Did you know that a woman knows what chance you have with her before you ever open your mouth to talk to her? Tis’ true, though it may be hard to believe. The truth is women can generally see you coming from a mile away, and they size you up instantly.

If you have trouble believing that, go to a bar, find an attractive group of women, and sit back and watch other men approach women. Pay close attention to the womens reactions as they notice the men coming in for the approach. Is it good, or is it bad?

(By the way, there is a hint there, because the reaction is always good or bad — it’s almost never indifferent)

Ouch… talk about a harsh situation. The women act as the judge, jury, and executioner, and you haven’t even gotten a chance to say anything yet! Doesn’t really seem fair, does it? After all, how much can they really tell about you without talking to you?

The truth is that there may be a lot that they can’t tell about you, but the one thing they really care about is written all over your face. And that one thing is confidence.

Not only can women spot it from across the room, they have this uncanny sixth sense about it. They can practically smell it, and when one of them senses it, she unconsciously and immediately communicates it to all of the other women.On the other hand, women want to detect a guy who lacks confidence, because he has the potential to be creepy if he hits on them, or even to turn into a stalker if he somehow gets her number of finds out where she lives or works.

When they see a new guy they instantly and unconsciously sense his confidence, or his lack of confidence.

Like I said, this happens before they meet you or get a chance to talk to you. It’s a lot like how us guys instantly and unconsciously put women into the ’Hot’ or ’Not’ category when we first meet them. And just like with our own hot or not assessment, I’m sorry to say there is no ’middle ground’ rating here.

From one moment to the next you either have physical confidence, or you don’t.

The good news is that when you can radiate confidence, you stand out to women and can actually become an object of their desire.